loving others..! or losing yourself?

love,is it a temporary feeling? we are so busy in loving others.but at the end we all end up with disappointments and  no expectations.we failed to change the world.we often failed to make them realize that we truely care for them  and then we start losing  ourselves.we are getting indulge too much ,it will make you happy for sumtime,and you feel how lucky you are,but it is a small time glory which ends making you sad all the time.i loved the time when i was all alone in my life,no tension,nothing to care for,can live my life by ownself,having no fear to lose someone,or to fear now whats the next mistake,which will seperate me from the people i love.the people who truely loves u will never asks for any credentials,u will be as free as u r wen u r alone.otherwise they will let you to dance according to their moods. in this process we lose ourselves,being mad for selfish ones who have learnt to love only themselves.