being Independent

 From the day we are born,we are nurtured by our parents,at every instant of  time we were dependent on them,from our small issues to big issues in life.but now,very few of our parents know our situations,difficulties,because conversation has ended,we have friends to share and we can rely on them because we always have that conception that parents can never understand. but ,the question is do we always need someone to be dependent on? for our problems,happiness or for our survival?can't we live happily with our own self...? as  like nurturing own body,motivating oneself,learning new things,learning from life,life teaches a new lesson everyday,but the lesson can be well learned when read out by your own self.dependency is worst when you lost your own self,you become so much dependent that you forgot to laugh,discover ,create yourself.you every action depend on someone else.is it boundness or depending too much? create space for yourself, take your time to think,its your decision to pursue your life at your own risk.i think when you do stuffs at your own risk you learn more.depending only create safety zone for you sometimes,and when this zone is taken away from you,you have learned only few of lessons? right? then what about the other lesson,know you are alone and exam is everyday?how can you pass?but soon you will..! get up stop looking behind and start learning new ones,you will learn by failing the exams,once you failed you learn more,and you keep on learning till you become independent enough to face this world.be your own hero,be more independent.