Where does the pain go?

The moments of sadness is not much longer than moment of happiness.The moment your heart feel like crying,you feel bad,the pain inside you cause the guilt inside you,enabling you to think whats wrong inside you as so much of hater and pain has occupied your body,that even the happy days are not felt to be special as they should be! At the very same moment you realize the pain has occupied your mind and when your mind is occupied with something else the pain has gone or you feel ok..as if you are fine and nothing strange has happened to you.so where  the pain has gone? for a moment of time you are fine because your mind and heart are related.what you think, your heart within start feeling,and you keep thinking and so does you feel for the words you think,and those words make you feel worse.so the pain is not gone anywhere..its deep inside your mind.as soon as you refreshes your memory,the pain grows more and more.so the pain has never gone..anywhere...its still with us in our mind.so the moments of grief are smaller but permanent and remains with ur for forever.